in packs. Within these packs the responsibility of their actions are diffused
as compared to being dominant solo. Most commonly, males attempt to assert
their dominance by sexually disrespecting women. By this I mean dog calls,
inappropriate touching or grabbing, and at worst rape and murder. Males allow
this behavior to continue to assert dominance and being the alpha of the pack-
like dogs- and for what?
Still men are not the only gender that competes for the title of
alpha dog. Women compete with one another but much more subtly. There are two
ways that women can become alpha dog and sad enough their title depends on the
reactions of the opposite sex. The first way females can assert dominance is to
stay quiet with the treatment males distribute. If a female is to display her
disdain for a male's behavior she is now 'stuck- up'. The second way a female
can assert her dominance is to embrace her sexuality as a type of tool. When
females do this they contribute into many manmade stereotypes. Namely, women
are here to please men, but they also gain the approval of men because of such.
How many posters of female rights advocates’ do you see hanging up in an all
male environment? That's right: None.
Maybe this adoption of dominance rules can be summed up as:
These rules have been around for so long no one can change them. Maybe it is
also as simple as: No one wants to change them. At the end of the day all we
can do is guess because tomorrow these sad cycles of male and female dominance
will still exist.
I think part of the dominance complex is an unchangeable part of our human nature- all mammals experience it, especially in the wild. You'd just think that humans are more civilized and no longer have to compete for the dominant title, but it happens even more in our civilized world.
ReplyDeleteWhile I see were you are coming from and agree that sadly those cycles do exists, I don't think it's that bad. I believe that, especially in a college or generally young environment, the dominance fight is not the apparent anymore. I'm sure there are plenty of men out there who are smart enough and need not prove their status through the 'alpha dog' behavior. At the same time women don't necessarily have that sense of competition (and it can be easily reversed on men).
ReplyDeleteI agree with Lauren. It's crazy to think that some men just can't get it through their heads that women are equal to them. I believe everyone should have to take a class starting in Kindergarden in which they learn all about equality and are put in situations where they are to experience equality first hand.
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